Face the Facts, Pass the RH Bill

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December 2012

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12/17/2012

Hello followers,

It has been a long while since the last update. 

While this remained largely stagnant, the articles that remain testify to the very need of the RH Bill in the Philippines. A need that, as of 7:00pm on this date, has been addressed and enacted into law. 

I never thought i’d be writing this entry, but I am glad that I am.

Face the Facts was a small but, I felt, a necessary movement. It started from an anti-RH billboard that I saw near Guadalupe station MRT - erected right behind the commercial center, among working class homes and steps away from the squatters area. That particular area is known for being near the most expensive billboards along EDSA (The bench billboards, for those wondering). Money that could have gone into relief operations and care went into propaganda. Of note, while there was a time the billboard was taken down - I saw it again, even nearer EDSA, which means they paid even MORE money to get it to the people.

Meanwhile, and this is with respect to friends who work among the ranks of the extreme secularists: I did not like that the fight, for a time, seemed to be an issue of “your god vs. my god, or non-god”. I was then— a non-practicing Catholic. I believed in God, but I also believed in the RH Bill. I am for secularism, but I wasn’t so hot on the Bible bashing. It wasn’t about whose God it was, it was science; it’s health, it’s blatant misinformation that cost lives.

So, came Face the Facts. It took awhile, eventually the Christian sensibility did come out and joined in the good fight.

I was pessimistic about seeing the bill passed in my generation, I had thought that most Pinoys would listen to the sway of the Catholic Church more than reason. I am so glad to have been proven wrong.

Through Face the Facts, it has been a pleasure to see both sides of the coin. It was interesting to see how people addressed the advocacy. I learned a little more about the Filipino in the process. 

In the end, as exhausted as I was with the issue, I am so glad that sense prevailed.

Today, I saw my government work. I believe it is a blessing, and in itself, a miracle.

Thank you to everyone who has contributed, ‘hearted’, and plugged this movement, especially for putting the blog on tumblr radar.

Personal thank yous: to Reis, for being the first one onboard with it. Thank you, Marco and Lauren, for being among the first to plug and mention it in later blog entries. To Vicky Ortega, for those long lunches and for sharing her own insight from her own advocacies in the provinces.

To Cholo Laurel, for allowing me to extend the core of this advocacy via Positivism.

And to Carlos Celdran, who indulged my tiny request for a retweet that got my followers in the hundreds in ONE DAY. Thank you for the good fight. Till the next time I walk your way. ;)

All my love,

Mia

http://miamarci.wordpress.com and http://miamarci-ink.tumblr.com

Dec 17, 201212 notes
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May 2012

1 post

PH Tops Teenage Pregnancy in Southeast Asia → newsinfo.inquirer.net

Ceredeña also  cited the NYC’s National Youth Assessment Study that revealed that unplanned pregnancy was one of the main reasons  young people do not complete their education.

The UNFPA study indicated the rate of teenage pregnancy in the country at 53 out of 1,000 Filipino women aged 15 – 19.

…The youth official is recommending “Age-appropriate reproductive health education” to address is problem.

Parents, have you talked with your kids? Talked WITH, not AT, not TO. Do they know and understand what sex is, how it’s done, and what could happen?

Without the RH Bill, without proper sex education, the worst can and will continue to happen. 

Face the facts today. 

May 3, 20125 notes
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February 2012

2 posts

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Feb 20, 201211 notes
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Happy Hearts Day from Face the Facts

Along with flowers and candy, please give the gift of safety.

Happy Valentines Day from Face the Facts.

Feb 13, 2012
#rhbill #pass the rhbill #philippines #reprodutive health #sex #sexuality #valentines day #condoms

January 2012

3 posts

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Jan 24, 20123 notes
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Abortion Rates Are Higher In Countries Where Procedure Is Illegal, Study Finds  → huffingtonpost.com

Worth noting: “Experts couldn’t say whether more liberal laws led to fewer procedures, but said good access to birth control in those countries resulted in fewer unwanted pregnancies.”


Jan 19, 201247 notes
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2012

A new year, but what have you heard lately about the RH Bill?

Jan 13, 20123 notes
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December 2011

4 posts

Philippine contraception bill causes fierce debate → bbc.co.uk

A video by BBC.

Tens of millions of people in the Philippines live in poverty and the country also has one of the highest birth rates in Asia.

The government now wants to encourage its citizens to have fewer children, and is putting forward a bill in parliament to provide free contraception.

But many Filipinos are Catholic and the church is unhappy with the bill, Kate McGeown reports from Manila.

Dec 16, 20118 notes
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Soda-soap mix as contraception - experts are alarmed → lifestyle.inquirer.net

BAGUIO CITY- Young Filipinos have been resorting to a concoction of detergent or bath soap plus cola drink, which they consume after engaging in premarital sex because they believe that the mixture can prevent the transmission of sexually-transmitted infections, a doctor revealed in this year’s national school health and nutrition congress here.

RH Bill not a priority? For how long? And how much longer do we let this go on?

Dec 16, 201119 notes
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Amnesty International-PH urges Congress to pass RH bill now → newsinfo.inquirer.net

Amnesty International-Philippines appealed to lawmakers not to let 2011 end without the much-needed measure being passed, saying not one more mother should suffer from preventable maternal death.

Aurora Parong, director of AI-Philippines, said Congress should pass the bill that would help millions of women prevent mistimed and unwanted pregnancies, and have safe pregnancies and child birth.

It could also help improve everyone’s enjoyment of sexual and reproductive rights and enhance personal and family relationships.

The bill, which has received staunch opposition from the Catholic Church, is being debated in the Congress, and there is no indication of when it could be put to a vote. Advocates for the bill have embarked on a series of activities to convince lawmakers to pass it soon.

“Ten years of waiting for the enactment of a reproductive health law is too long. Our lawmakers must get their acts together to enact the law before the year ends,” Parong said in a statement.

She also said preventable maternal deaths have been among the biggest problems affecting women in the country and in most developing countries.

Dec 5, 20113 notes
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HIV cases worldwide decreasing except in PH  → ph.news.yahoo.com

A Global AIDS Report released recently by the UNAIDS observed there has been a 25 percent decline in HIV infections and AIDS-related illness and deaths, and that countries who have given enough funding and attention to the problem have stabilized the rise, spread and deaths caused by the virus.

Merceditas Apilado, a UNAIDS social mobilization adviser, said the Philippines is “one of the exceptions …and the number of HIV infections and AIDS cases in the country continues to rise, and not lessen.”


Dec 1, 20116 notes
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December 1 is World AIDS Day

Face the Facts supports the fight against AIDS.

Be safe, stay informed, get tested. Learn more about it from the following websites:

Positivism.ph, the No Day But Today Project, and The Red Whistle.

Nov 30, 201110 notes
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November 2011

5 posts

Nov 23, 201153 notes
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RH Bill won't be passed this year → gmanews.tv

House Majority Leader Neptali Gonzales II said deliberations on House Bill (HB) 4244, or the “Responsible Parenthood, Reproductive Health and Population Development Act of 2011,” will have to drag on to next year due to the number of congressmen who want to debate on the measure.

“Don’t expect that this [the RH bill] will be passed this year. I’m just being honest,” he said at a press briefing, adding that more than 20 House members are still on the list of interpellators despite the fact that plenary debates on the bill started last March.

“We have to consider the legislative mill… Itong RH, in my experience as a floor leader, it’s not really time na pagbotohan ito,” Gonzales said.

Gonzales, however, said HB 4244 will be put to a vote by next year.

Stalled again.

But when is it a good time to vote for this bill?

Nov 15, 20115 notes
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The world at 7 billion → bbc.co.uk

Who are you among the 7 billion? Plug in your birthdate, get your number.

From the site:

“The world’s population is expected to hit seven billion in the next few weeks. After growing very slowly for most of human history, the number of people on Earth has more than doubled in the last 50 years. Where do you fit into this story of human life? Fill in your date of birth below to find out.”

Nov 8, 20117 notes
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“The more children you have, the more macho you are.” —common belief
Nov 4, 20111 note
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October 2011

2 posts

Oct 17, 201129 notes
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Oct 13, 201140 notes
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September 2011

1 post

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One of Lapid’s concerns is the possible effect of artificial contraceptives on babies.

“I’ve seen them mostly in provinces. Could it be because of some medicines? In most cases, especially in the provinces, the youngest child ends up being mongoloid. I wonder who could provide me the answer to this question,” he said.

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Lito Lapid Fears the RH Bill (abs-cbnnews.com)

Dear Sir Lapid.

Someone needs to pick up a college level science book and actually read.

Nasa textbook yan, sir. Basahin mo lang. Mag-consult ka muna sa mga doktor. Yung mga totoong doktor ha. Pwede mo rin basahin sa wikipedia.

Also from the article: “Speaking to Senate reporters, Lapid said he is afraid to debate with RH bill co-sponsors Sen. Miriam Defensor Santiago and Sen. Pia Cayetano because he might not be able to answer adequately in English. “

Hindi yan sa kulang ng inggles, Sir. Kahit ako, kulang ang tagalog ko pero alam ko naman anong totoo.

Face the facts. Ignorance kills.

Sep 21, 201119 notes
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August 2011

5 posts

Miriam Defensor-Santiago: The Reproductive Health Act (Sponsorship speech parts 2 and 3) → miriam.com.ph

There are a number of constitutional provisions that underlie the RH bill.  But the most salient is what I would call the “Sanctity of Life” Clause found under Article 2, as a declaration of state policy:

Sec. 12. The State recognizes the sanctity of family life and shall protect and strengthen the family as a basic autonomous social institution.  It shall equally protect the life of the mother and the life of the unborn from conception.

This provision does not mention the term “reproductive health” or any of its affiliate vocabularies.  This is in the nature of a constitution.

Aug 18, 20111 note
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Priests to forgive abortion in Pope Youth Festival → gmanews.tv

We can hope that one day makes all the difference.

The Vatican has granted priests the right to forgive the sin of abortion when hearing the confessions of hundreds of thousands of young people attending a Roman Catholic youth festival in Spain this week.

The termination of pregnancy is a sin punishable by excommunication under Church law. The World Youth Day (WYD) pilgrims will attend a mass confession in the presence of Pope Benedict on Saturday in a central Madrid park.

“This (concession) is to make it easier for the faithful who attend the World Youth Day celebrations to obtain the fruits of divine grace,” the Madrid archdiocese said in a statement on its website.

Aug 18, 2011
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Survey #4: Christ on a Stick

Have you seen Mideo Cruz’s “Poleteismo”?

For those wondering, you can see the video of the installation here. Dildos blurred out.

Do you find it offensive, or no? Why or why not?

Aug 10, 20115 notes
Part 1: Primacy of conscience in Catholic Theology → miriam.com.ph

A very good summation on the theological issues at hand with the RH Bill. This is part 1 of a speech by Senator Miriam Defensor Santiago.

For those conflicted with their faith and sensibilities, this is worth the read. 

The RH bill is supported by a big majority of Filipinos in the country, as shown by certain nationwide surveys.  In October 2008, Social Weather Stations reported that 71 percent were in favor of the RH bill.  In October 2010, Pulse Asia reported that 69 percent were in favor of the RH bill.

Despite these surveys, certain Catholics, notably certain bishops, seem poised to fight to the death against the RH bill.  To understand why Catholics are so divided on this issue, and why there is such fierce antipathy, we must go back to the Second Vatican Council, the greatest of the councils held by the Catholic Church…[read more]

Aug 1, 20113 notes
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“RH bills have been passed by the majority of Catholic countries. Only 6 Catholic countries do not have an RH law, including Philippines.” —Senator Miriam Defensor-Santiago, twitter
Aug 1, 20118 notes
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Poor women speak on RH; is anyone listening? → opinion.inquirer.net

How ironic that the women most affected by the decisions of political and religious leaders about their wombs and sexual behavior, are accorded the least say on their expressed need for reproductive health services. Although it is their lives that hang in the balance, celibate males and conservative Catholic laity unabashedly speak for them in these matters. Let us for a change listen to poor women’s voices, as articulated in empirical studies like Likhaan’s “Imposing Misery: The Impact of Manila’s Ban on Contraception.” (2007) It details some of the effects of former Mayor Lito Atienza’s Executive Order 003 passed in 2000 declaring total commitment and support only to natural family planning methods.

Rosario (fictitious name to protect her identify) speaks: “I feel anxious and fearful of the chance of getting pregnant if I don’t have money to buy pills, unlike before when I used to get injectables for free, which were very convenient and effective for months …. I got depressed when the mayor banned family planning. It was a big loss for many mothers…”

Laarni, already in her eighth pregnancy, explains, “My life was put at risk when I gave birth to my fifth child … The doctor … said that this should be my last pregnancy or else my children would suffer if I die…. The doctor really wanted me to have a ligation but she couldn’t do anything since it was banned in the hospital.”

Jul 31, 2011682 notes
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July 2011

4 posts

Sex Education, or, What Boys Will Want From You → brainfroth.wordpress.com

I am angry that the so-called “sex education” I was provided with was so incredibly inadequate. I find it hard to believe what I’m about to say, but I know it’s true, because I lived through it.

Nobody told me I had a clitoris.

Nobody told me I was capable of having orgasms.

For five years I was given “sex education”. It mostly consisted of periods and condoms. It didn’t talk about consent. It didn’t talk about the actual mechanics of sex, about arousal and lubrication and oscillation. It didn’t tell me a single thing about relationships and it didn’t tell me I had a clitoris.

What do you say, ladies?

Jul 26, 20117 notes
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Birth Control as Preventive Medicine? The Institute of Medicine says Yes. → swampland.time.com

“Citing data showing that contraception lowers unintended pregnancy and abortion rates, the IOM also said birth control can help women better space out their pregnancies, which can have positive health impacts.”

Jul 20, 20113 notes
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GMA News: Maternal deaths put heavier toll on daughters → gmanews.tv

Behind the open door stood nine-year-old Michelle Esconde. Most kids her age are often seen holding a doll, but not Michelle. Her tiny arms were tightly wrapped around the small frame of her one-year-old brother.

Their mother Julia died last year, just five minutes after giving birth to the eighth child in the family. Julia was 39 years old.

Since then, the responsibility of taking care of the baby has been passed on to Michelle. For a year now, she has missed out on playing with other kids and going to school – rights that duly belong to a child like her.


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The Philippines is among the 68 countries that contribute to 97 per cent of maternal and children’s deaths worldwide, according to the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) in its State of the World’s Children 2009 report.

Eleven Filipino pregnant women die each day, or some 4,500 each year, due to complications in childbirth. These are caused by hemorrhage, sepsis, hypertension and abortive outcomes, which are preventable. An overwhelming majority, 70 percent of the deaths, occur at childbirth or within a day after delivery.

Jul 14, 20116 notes
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June 2011

9 posts

Amnesty International backs RH Bill → interaksyon.com

Amnesty International Philippines has weighed in on the debate over the Reproductive Health bill, calling on the Roman Catholic church to reconsider its opposition to the measure.

At the recent launch of its 2011 Human Rights Report here, AIPh said it has agreed, after substantive discussions among its members, to officially support the campaign for the enactment of the RH bill.

“We add the voice of AIPh in the call to pass the RH Bill as a significant step towards ‘choosing life,’ as a step towards the realization of sexual and reproductive rights and maternal health rights. We add the perspective of human rights in this campaign,” AIPh director Aurora Corazon A. Parong said.

Parong cited a report of the Centre for Reproductive Rights in August last year that “found that more than 560,000 women terminated their pregnancies each year and about 1,000 of them died annually after clandestine illegal abortions.”

Jun 29, 20116 notes
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Jun 27, 201111 notes
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One born every minute: The maternity unit where mothers are THREE to a bed → dailymail.co.uk

The ward is at Dr Jose Fabella Memorial Hospital in Manila in the Philippines where some 300 new mothers crammed three to a bed. It may look more like an overcrowded squat but this is actually a maternity ward. 

It is one of the busiest maternity wards in the world with an average of 60 births a day but it can record as many as 100 in 24 hours.

Jun 16, 2011
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Jun 10, 201125 notes
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RH Bill is pro-youth - Kabataan Partylist → philstar.com

“We support the RH bill because it emphasizes and reinforces the long-neglected responsibility of the State to provide the citizens, especially the marginalized, their reproductive health needs. For so long, the government has shunned this very important duty to profit-oriented and private health institutions that remain inaccessible to the poor. Furthermore, it has not mustered enough political will and concern for the marginalized women and youths as it remains afraid to challenge some antiquated beliefs of the influential church hierarchy. The failure to institute a reproductive health program at this crucial time would only prolong the agony of the sectors most affected by the crisis in our health system.”

Jun 9, 20117 notes
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Sponsorship speech on the RH Bill by Pia Cayetano → senatorpiacayetano.com

“Mr. President, because of all the misinformation regarding the contents and objectives of the bill, let me start by what this bill is NOT.

1. This is NOT a bill that promotes or legalizes abortion. On the contrary, it is for the protection of the unborn along with its mother.

2. This is NOT a bill that imposes one mode of family planning method on all. Every person will be allowed to choose the method suitable to his needs and based on his religious beliefs.

3. This is NOT a bill that imposes a certain family size.

4. This bill will NOT solve all the problems of our country. Like most of the bills filed in the Senate, it is just one measure that will address a particular problem. In this case, it is the reproductive health of all Filipinos, particularly the women and her child.

5. This is NOT a bill that will teach 9 year olds how to use a condom. Neither does it promote sexual activity among the youth or promote promiscuity among adults.”

Jun 9, 20114 notes
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Solons want to prohibit the use of sex toys and gadgets → congress.gov.ph

Hmm, thoughts?

Jun 8, 20115 notes
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Survey #3 Let's talk about you and me

Do you think Philippine sexual attitudes are more liberated, or conservative?

Jun 8, 201110 notes
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Ailments and Cures of Medieval Women → richeast.org

Contraception and reproductive health is not a modern anomaly. This website shows practices of contraception and reproductive health from the medieval ages.

“Each time those women have sexual intercourse, those who wish not to be with child put a teaspoonful of the seeds, saved from the autumn harvest, in a glass of water and drink it.” (Riddle, 1992, p.325) To determine if this form of contraception worked, medieval physicians performed experiments with mice, and it was viewed as a promising substance to prevent preganancy.”

Jun 8, 2011
#face the facts #sex #resources #philippines #rhbill #Reproductive Health Bill

May 2011

47 posts

My Stand on the RH Bill by Fr. Joaquin Bernas → opinion.inquirer.net

A very good example of faith and reason at work.

May 30, 20119 notes
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Free vasectomies at first Manila family planning fair → reuters.com

Last July 11, 2008. The very first Manila family planning fair was held.

“I really wanted to do this a long time ago because my wife’s health has suffered due to multiple pregnancies and births,” the 41-year-old Pagunsan told Reuters, adding that his wife was pregnant with their eighth child. “I don’t know how and where to get this done. So, when social workers went to our house offering to do it free, I immediately jumped on the chance. I’m doing this for my family.”
May 30, 20111 note
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May 30, 201123 notes
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Some quotes from the late George Carlin (some thougts to ponder)

1.) Boy, these conservatives are really something, aren’t they? They’re all in favor of the unborn. They will do anything for the unborn. But once you’re born, you’re on your own…

2.) Pro-life conservatives are obsessed with the fetus from conception to nine months. After that, they don’t want to know about you. They don’t want to hear from you. No nothing. No neonatal care, no day care, no head start, no school lunch, no food stamps, no welfare, no nothing. If you’re preborn, you’re fine; if you’re preschool, you’re effed up (EDITED FROM: ******).

3.) Conservatives don’t give a s*** about you until you reach ‘military age’. Then they think you are just fine. Just what they’ve been looking for. Conservatives want live babies so they can raise them to be dead soldiers. Pro-life… pro-life… These people aren’t pro-life, they’re killing doctors! What kind of pro-life is that? What, they’ll do anything they can to save a fetus but if it grows up to be a doctor they just might have to kill it? They’re not pro-life. You know what they are? They’re anti-woman. Simple as it gets, anti-woman. They don’t like them. They don’t like women. They believe a woman’s primary role is to function as a brood mare for the state.

4.) And you won’t see a lot of these pro-life people dousing themselves in kerosene and lighting themselves on fire. You know, morally committed people in South Vietnam knew how to stage a god-damned demonstration, didn’t they? They knew how to put on a f****** protest. Light yourself on fire! Come on, you moral crusaders, let’s see a little smoke to match that fire in your belly.

5.) If a fetus is a human being, how come the census doesn’t count them? If a fetus is a human being, how come when there’s a miscarriage they don’t have a funeral? If a fetus is a human being, how come people say “We have two children and one on the way” instead of saying “We have three children?” People say life begins at conception. I say life began about a billion years ago and it’s a continuous process. Continuous, just keeps rolling along.

May 30, 20118 notes
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“

Yung isang tao ko kasi buntis yung asawa. Eh yung panganay nga niya laging nagkakasakit. Yung sahod niya hindi niya mapagkasya sa isang buwan. Not to mention, na yung panganay niya hindi rin nila pinlano. Tapos ngayon mag-aanak pa siya.

(One of my men has a pregnant wife. His eldest is sickly, and his wages only fit one month. Not to mention, they did not plan to have their eldest, and now they’re going to have another.)

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May 30, 2011
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“If you have sex standing up, you can’t get pregnant.” —sex myth from high schoolers
May 27, 2011
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John Rock's Error → gladwell.com

John Rock was baptised Catholic, and was a pioneer behind stem cell research and birth control. This is the story of his struggle with his faith, science, the church, and what we didn’t know then. Written by Malcolm Gladwell.

“Rock, his friends would say, was in love with his church. He was also one of the inventors of the birth-control pill, and it was his conviction that his faith and his vocation were perfectly compatible. To anyone who disagreed he would simply repeat the words spoken to him as a child by his home-town priest: ‘John, always stick to your conscience. Never let anyone else keep it for you. And I mean anyone else.’”

May 27, 20111 note
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“If your period gets delayed, that means you’ve lost the baby. When your period finally arrives and the blood clumps, that’s all that’s left of your baby.” —another menstruation myth
May 24, 20111 note
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How a baby is made → fooyoh.com

With Denmark being the first country to legalize pornography and same-sex unions, it seems understandable that a Danish author, Per Holm Knudsen, wrote How a Baby Is Made (originally titled The True Story of How Babies are Made, published in 1973) - an extremely detailed children’s book about the very happy process of making a baby.

May 24, 20115 notes
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“If you wash yourself after intercourse, you won’t get pregnant. Even better if you wash with vinegar.” —another commonly-believed sex myth
May 23, 2011
#face the facts #rhbill #Reproductive Health Bill #sex #sexuality #philippines #myth
“If you have your period, you shouldn’t take a bath, baka mabilis ka mabuntis.” —small-town menstruation myth
May 23, 2011
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This was relayed by a friend of mine on facebook.

There’s this one case during my internship at a government hospital.

It was the wee hours. As I was entering the delivery room, I heard the OB yelling angrily at the patient who was shouting and cursing due to labor pains. So I asked the doctor why yell at the patient. The doctor looked at me smiling. Then asked the patient, in a loud voice so as to overcome the voice of the patient.

Doctor: “Mrs. ilan na po anak nyo?”

Patient:”Labing tatlo po!”

Doctor: “Ano po ang trabaho ni mister?”

Patient: “WALA po!”

Doctor: “Asan po yung panganay nyo?”

Patient: “Nakakulong po!”

Doctor: “E…Yung Pangalawa nyo po?”

Patient: “Hindi ko po alam.”

Doctor: “E..yung pangatlo po asan po?”

Patient:”Nakakulong din po ata.. Hindi ko po alam e..”

Doctor: “yung pangapat po?”

Patient: “Nawawala po..”

Doctor: “E yung panglima?”

Patient: “yun po ang nagaalaga nung iba.. kasi maliliit pa..”

So the doctor looked at me and said now you know why…

May 23, 201118 notes
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“You can’t get pregnant the first time you have sex.” —common sex myth
May 22, 20112 notes
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